Here is a list of books I have read recently that I think have a unique point of view or tell I story I just haven't read before. Maybe some of you folks out there in blogland will give me some suggestions. Pretty Please!
The Golden Spruce
The Icarus Girl
Intuition
A Short History of the Tractor in Ukrainia
Tales of the Otori ( Series)
March
The Thirteenth Tale
The Number 1 Ladies Detective Agency ( Series)
On the subject of lists Inga and Erik have a new ongoing funny list story. The superintendent of our schools has decided that each classroom in our district should display a poster of"150 ways to Show a Child you Care". This includes the High School. Well, the quickest ways to inspire rebellion among a large group of teachers seems to be to require that they do something. They just don't want to be "bossed". And well some things on the list sound pretty funny when you apply them to High School teachers and their students. Play outside together, tape record a message for them, share a meal together...share a secret... predictably Erik's history teacher has something to say about this poster. " Ladies and Gentlemen behold the poster of "150 ways to be a pedophile" An art teacher is going through the list and trying one thing every day. Friday she was giving out Dixie cups of juice to all her students. A couple of kids from history class had to borrow something from the art room when they returned they raised their hand and said, May we please have juice too?" I am sure they used their best "please" and "thank you voices!"
Notice them.
Smile a lot.
Acknowledge them.
Learn their names.
Seek them out.
Remember their birthday.
Ask them about themselves
Look in their eyes when you talk to them.
Listen to them.
Play with them.
Read aloud together.
Giggle together.
Be nice.
Say yes a lot.
Tell them their feelings are okay.
Set boundaries that keep them safe.
Be honest.
Be yourself.
Listen to their stories.
Hug them.
Forget your worries sometimes and concentrate only on them.
Notice when they're acting differently.
Present options when they seek your counsel.
Play outside together.
Surprise them.
Stay with them when they're afraid.
Invite them over for juice.
Suggest better behaviors when they act out.
Feed them when they're hungry.
Delight in their discoveries.
Share their excitement.
Send them a letter or postcard.
Follow them when they lead.
Notice when they're absent.
Call them to say hello.
Hide surprises for them to find.
Give them space when they need it.
Contribute to their collections.
Discuss their dreams and nightmares.
Laugh at their jokes.
Be relaxed.
Kneel, squat, or sit so you're at their eye level.
Answer their questions.
Tell them how terrific they are.
Create a tradition with them and keep it.
Learn what they have to teach.
Use your ears more than your mouth.
Make yourself available.
Show up at their concerts, games, and events.
Find a common interest.
Hold hands during a walk.
Apologize when you've done something wrong.
Listen to their favorite music with them.
Keep the promises you make.
Wave and smile when you part.
Display their artwork in your home.
Thank them.
Point out what you like about them.
Clip magazine pictures or articles that interest them.
Give them lots of compliments.
Catch them doing something right.
Encourage win-win solutions.
Give them your undivided attention.
Ask for their opinion.
Have fun together.
Be curious with them.
Introduce them to your friends and family.
Tell them how much you like being with them.
Let them solve most of their own problems.
Meet their friends.
Meet their parents.
Let them tell you how they feel.
Help them become an expert at something.
Be excited when you see them.
Tell them about yourself.
Let them act their age.
Praise more; criticize less.
Be consistent.
Admit when you make a mistake.
Enjoy your time together.
Give them a special nickname.
Marvel at what they can do.
Tell them how proud you are of them.
Pamper them.
Unwind together.
Be happy.
Ask them to help you.
Support them.
Applaud their successes.
Deal with problems and conflicts while they're still small.
Chaperone a dance.
Tell them stories in which they are the hero.
Believe in them.
Nurture them with good food.
Be flexible.
Delight in their uniqueness.
Let them make mistakes.
Notice when they grow.
Wave and honk when you drive by them.
Give them immediate feedback.
Include them in conversations.
Respect them.
Join in their adventures.
Visit their schools.
Help them learn something new.
Be understanding when they have a difficult day.
Give them good choices.
Respect the choices they make.
Be silly together.
Hang out together.
Make time.
Inspire their creativity.
Accept them as they are.
Become their advocate.
Appreciate their personality.
Talk openly with them.
Tolerate their interruptions.
Trust them.
Share a secret.
Write a chalk message on their sidewalk.
Create a safe, open environment.
Be available.
Cheer their accomplishments.
Encourage them to help others.
Tackle new tasks together.
Believe what they say.
Help them take a stand and stand with them.
Daydream with them.
Do what they like to do.
Make decisions together.
Magnify their magnificence.
Build something together.
Encourage them to think big.
Celebrate their firsts and lasts, such as the first day of school.
Go places together.
Welcome their suggestions.
Visit them when they're sick.
Tape record a message for them.
Help them learn from mistakes.
Be sincere.
Introduce them to people of excellence.
Tell them what you expect of them.
Give them your phone number.
Introduce them to new experiences.
Share a meal together.
Talk directly together.
Be spontaneous.
Expect their best; don't expect perfection.
Empower them to help and be themselves.
Love them, no matter what.
Saturday, September 20, 2008
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Well, you probably don't want to know what I have been reading lately. While going through the house in Granville I found old copies of "Little Women" and "Little Men". When I got home I discovered I had "Jo's Boys" in my own book case so that is what I'm reading right now. I also read "Heidi" and "Heidi Grows Up" while in Granville. I'm sure these aren't the books you are looking for, but I've been enjoying re-reading them.
Nothing wrong with re-reading classics. We are working our way through the Little House on the Prarie Series with Lara. For my own reading, I'm in the middle of "America, America" as an mp3 audiobook.
Turns out the DC library has an online collection you can download to listen to on an ipod or smartphone. This book is sort of a modern Great Gadsby (as in the rich are different form you and me), but centered on politics and culture in upstate NY in the early 70's.
I loved Little Women and Heidi. My book of the year, March, is the story of the absent father in Little Women.
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